This afternoon, on our way home from the math tutor, my daughter C asked me this question: "Who would you have married if you didn't marry daddy?"
At this point in my parenting career I've learned a few lessons, one of which is that after your kids gets to be about six, it's impossible to pull the wool over their eyes. Maybe it's the tone of your voice or your averted gaze when you're telling that "little white lie"--I'm not sure--but somehow they always know when you're not being straight with them.
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Today's Wall Street Journal, The Juggle Blog, sites a new study that questions how many women are really leaving the workforce. If you're reading this you know the reality is that many women do leave. Check out the blog and comments below:
There have been a number of high-profile articles about well-educated women “opting out” of the workforce after having children. But a new study published in the June issue of the “American Sociological Review” says that this so-called “opting out revolution” has been overblown. (See a summary of the study here.)
Among the findings: Fewer than 8% of professional, college-educated women born since 1956 leave the workforce for a year or more during their prime childbearing years, writes sociologist Christine Percheski, a doctoral student at Princeton, in an examination of census data. What’s more, full-time employment levels of women with young children have risen dramatically in recent decades. And more women with young children are working longer hours than ever before.
The study’s findings surprised me because they don’t gel with my personal experience. I have many well-educated, accomplished friends, all new moms, who have decided to stay at home with their kids rather than going back to their high-pressure jobs. In most cases, they have husbands who earn big bucks, are from places where the cost of living is low, or worked in high-stress jobs that they were never crazy about. Read more.
On June 20, 2008, by a vote of 278-146, the United States House of Representatives passed H.R. 5781, the Family Leave and Medical Insurance Act, which would grant federal workers up to twelve weeks of paid leave. The tantalizing taste of victory may make you want to start dancing in the street. Yet, in a Simon-Says like dichotomy, the passage of this bill in the House is at once a giant step and a baby step.
I went to a great conference yesterday hosted by Flexperience on Flexibility in the work place. They had some smart, articulate speakers from major corporations who are doing the flexibility thing. I turned to my friend Catherine, from YourOnRamp, and said they get it, almost. And she nodded.
What they know: There is value to flexibility to an employer
Today's Wall Street Journal, The Juggle Blog, sites a new study that questions how many women are really leaving the workforce. If you're reading this you know the reality is that many women do leave. Check out the blog and comments below:
After reading the article I got a different slant than posted above. It sounds like its really about people wanting to have more of a life, around their family, their relationships, as well as their work. That men and women alike are not wanting to work in the same ways the medical community has worked in the past.
I don't see this as a bad thing, perhaps things are opening up for them to be able to take care of their lives' and have more openess for their patients as well.
"But I can’t help wondering if the question “Are Women Doctors Worth the Money?” distracts medicine from having to answer the harder question, “Can we provide high-quality care more flexibly for everyone?” quote from Cali Williams.
wouldn't that be great, better quality care for everyone, including those giving the care!
Antonia
Ottalie Clark
Arbonne Independent Consultant
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www.arbonne.com
Hi Catherine,
Although I wasn't at that conference, I have been having similar conversations with the co-working world. It really is what these millenials are looking for in terms of flexibility. I recently blogged about it. http://www.svmoms.com/2008/04/being-a-cool-ki.html
Companies need to adapt to the changing workforce that technology has enabled if they want to win with this new generation. Additionally, I think that the "onrampers" are also looking for this flexibility. As I have said before, we all want to have our cake and eat it, too.
-Felicity
Hi Catherine;
Where do you go for bikram yoga in our area?
Thks.
Mei-Ling